My interest in couple work developed through my failed relationships and the many failed relationships I saw with friends, family and co-workers.

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The statistics are so high for relationships to fail. Yet we try and try again.

So why does it seem so hard?

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I believe it seems hard because its starts as one thing but ends up as something different.

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We all hear the things we want to hear at the beginning because we want or need to hear them, and then we ignore potential red flags.

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These red flags have not gone away.

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Red flags can be sex, communication, not knowing about your new partner's past, or how they manage finances or relationships.

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A good indicator of future behaviour is relevant past behaviour.

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The red flags you may have chosen to ignore are likely to reappear during the big decisions and choices we make as a couple.

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If we have not started with a good foundation, the cracks will show later.